Felicia Tan’s Blog

A quote that I found somewhere

No matter how busy work is, never forget to appreciate people surrounding you.

This is a common quote, however how much can we stay determined, focus and to achieve it?

When there is a Will, there is a Way   有志者事竟成

Hope I can do it!

The human brain is an amazing thing that I can’t help but wonder why. I wasn’t thinking of anything but just wanted to listen to the songs from <雪狼湖>. All of a sudden, I realise why… The songs from the musical just reflected my thoughts and feeling right now… You thought you can let go, but the brain has a way to bring you back again. Sob

Here is the chorus lyrics..
*原來只要共你活一天
凡塵裡一切可以別掛念〔可再不掛念〕
原來海角天際亦會變
原來生過死過深愛亦無變
原來只要共你活一天
完全去把你所有都發現
原來只要相信便看見
原來給你真愛的我是無悔　是每一天

Another song - 怎么舍得你

*一絲絲　一點點　燒燬憶記
一幅幅　一聲聲　又復燃起
怎麼捨得你

任由我　腸斷至死
戀一生　差一些　不可一起
祇一心　等一天　日月如飛
卻等不到你
願忘記　又想起你

Got this quote from my friend.

Don’t look back at the past but live in the present moments!

Thanks, much comforting…

A name is what your parents gave you is also what parents hope and best wishes for you. For this reason, my son’s name is 刘家铭, Dominic Low, is my expectation of him.

家 - I hope that he can put his family first in everything that he does, this way, he can’t go wrong too far as long as he have his family in mind.

铭 - As to this, since it is last character of the name, it is expected that he doesn’t go after rich and power and lost his way in the end.

It is also for us, parents to remember how hard we went though to have this baby to care and nurture him to be a better human being.

However, this was all a plan that can never be accomplished. We lost him on 4th November 2011, 10.07pm. He was only 23 weeks 2 days old. I delivered him and holding him, I saw him grasping for air. Being too small and premature, he was unable to survive on his own… He was only 535grams when delivered. However, he looked cute with his 4 small limbs. We were all crying but how I wish the one that is crying is him and not us. He should be lying in our pretty cot that we prepared for him but not the…

Why does this happen to us? What have I done wrongly?

My hubby said he will always be our first son. By the way, the name has another meaning to it which is to - 铭记于心

Love forever…